Thursday, November 27, 2008

Bleeding Sex


After two months of being single and dating online I met this "Maybe Mr. Right". He's 6'1'', average body build (slender), slightly boyish, a little nerdy with his glasses, dark blonde hair, bluish eyes, and he's only 26. He works as a stock analyst for a big firm. We email constantly everyday, talk for hours on the phone and try to see each other whenever possible. He doesn't realize that his profile picture doesn't do him justice. He made plans to see me on a friday, but didn't get back to me. I'm sitting here scrolling through the phone and nothing. I figured forget it, if he can't keep commitments what's the point? He finally calls me on Sat, it's pouring out, so I was hoping that he cancels and plans for a sunday date. Well, he insist on meeting on Sat...so I say okay. I don't make much of an effort to look great, considering the first cancelation. We see each other and instantly hit it off. He can't stop staring at me. He making a big effort to keep me interested, cracking jokes about other dates he's been on. He tells me he's new to the online scene so I'm skeptic about how many women he's actually dating. He then proceeds to tell me about the three dates he's been on. One girl wasn't attractive, second girl baked him cookies on their first date and was a little on the heavy side, third girl wanted to buy drugs while they were out together...so obviously he doesn't call anyone back for a second date. He's extremely sarcastic and funny. I haven't had anyone make me laugh that hard in so long. We start making out and noticed that we definitely have chemistry. He tells me he wants to see me again on sunday so we make plans. We go out for dinner and have a blast. It's only been two weeks and we haven't stoped talking, going out, spending time together. By the way... I've already talked to his mom, spent time with his friends, and yes we had sex. He refused to have sex with me while I was completely intoxicated. He said he wanted it to be more special, both of us sober. So I sleep over a couple of times without having sex. One morning when we were completely sober we start having sex and before you know it I start bleeding like crazy. It was so gross, I was completely mortified! It's all over his sheets, and it's a mess. I know I had my period two weeks back, but it was a little weird only two days. I'm seeing my doctor on monday. I went ahead and scheduled a full STD test as well. You can't trust condoms! I'm also opting to go on the pill...can never be too safe. Btw...he's infertile. He needs to have surgery on his nads, something about vicose vains killing off all his sperm. Don't know if this is going to be an issue.

Saturday, November 8, 2008

Wine and Dine




Been on four dates with Polish Guy #2. First we went for drinks at Kilmat in the east village, then to some french bistro in the upperwest, Ruth Chris in weehawken, and Garage in the west village. Today we're opting to just rent a movie and "hang out" at his place. I'm no dummy, I know what he's leading up to. The question is, am I open to it? Not really sure. Got a little freaked out when he told me that he's taking himself offline and that he told his sister that he found someone special...me. I'm a bit worried, because I don't know if I like him that much or am even ready to settle down. He's picking me up at 10pm and then off to Jersey. I'm probably going to end up staying there tonight. He's growing on me. In the meantime I still think about French guy. He's should be back in a week and a half or so. Wondering if he's going to call me when he gets back. Anyhoo, Finance guy is still in the picture. He's taking me to the opera on our next date. I love a cultured guy! Online dating is letting me experience New York with a date. I'm not sure if I really like Polish Guy#2. He's 29, 6'2'', super blonde hair, greenish eyes, preppy, works in finance, but looks about a 6 or 7 out of 10. I'm not that attracted to him. I usually need a couple of glasses before I'm okay with the date. (Not a good sign). French guy kept asking me if I'm talking or sleeping with other people. I keep dodging the question. I would never ask that, considering, i just know if you're online, then you're probably seeing other people. Today I was suppose to go out with the guy I met at the club, but he's totally flaky. He made plans to see me at 5 but wanted to go home and shower after juditsu, then he fell asleep and asked if we could meet up at 11. Um NO! Geez guys just have to get a clue. Anyhoo, called Polish guy #2 and am now getting ready to go out with him.